B'hor in a Box (part two)

** It bears repeating at the beginning of this second post that much of this teaching has been heavily influenced by Rabbi David Fohrman's teachings on the Exodus and Passover.

For anyone reading my blog for the first time, you will want to catch “B'hor in a Box (Part One)” as precursor to this post.

So we've established at this point that the Passover is somehow a connection to the Joseph story and that the Joseph story is really just a retelling of the Jacob story.  But what does Jacob and/or Joseph have to do with how you eat the Passover meal?  And what in the world did this have to do with the little black boxes known as tefillin?

Well, one would want to stop and contemplate the similarities of the Jacob and Joseph stories and what it is that ties these two stories together.  In essence, where is Genesis headed as it tells the story?  For one, it was easy to track along with Genesis' initial trajectory.  The “preface” (Gen. 1–11) had set the stage and invited us to reframe how we see the world.  God had invited us to trust the good story that He was telling in creation.  We then met Abram and even Isaac who showed us, albeit a terrible struggle at times, what it looks like to lean into trust.  We can track with the story at that point.

But with Jacob, everything seems to change.  No longer is the “model pupil” the one that the promise follows.  Instead of the “good ol' boy” Esau being the child of promise, we find that the sneaky little usurper, Jacob, gets the tap from Coach.  What in the world is going on here?

And just like every other time in which we run into a question that bothers us, we find some clues lying in the text.

It's actually in this very struggle that we find the ties that pull the Jacob and Joseph stories together.  You see, both stories are about children of promise that want to be the firstborn — but are not.  As much as Jacob wants to be Isaac's firstborn, he is not.  Even if he obtains the birthright and deceives his father into giving Jacob his blessing, he is not the firstborn.  The role of the firstborn is an important responsibility in the ancient culture.  The b'hor (the Hebrew word for “firstborn”) is the one who is responsible for taking the father's value and passing it on to his siblings.  He gets a double portion of blessing (if there are five sons, the estate is split six ways and the b'hor gets two; if there are two sons, the estate is split three ways and the b'hor gets two; etc.), but he also carries a double portion of responsibility for the entire patriarchal household.  It is the b'hor's responsibility, upon his father's death, to provide for the entire mishpucha (household).  Jacob wants to be the b'hor, but he is not.

This is repeated in Joseph.  Jacob will take two wives after being beaten at his own game of trickery.  He wanted to marry Rachel, but was given Leah first.  Even after Leah bears Jacob sons, it is Rachel that continues to have Jacob's favor.  When Rachel finally gives Jacob a son, this is the one whom Jacob favors.  Even though Jacob already HAS a firstborn son, he tries to make Joseph his firstborn son.  Father Jacob gives a special coat to his favorite son, Joseph.  There actually happens to be nothing special to the coat at all.  People have tried to make it a “colored” coat (which is not in the Text).  They've tried to make it a “striped” coat or even a “fine” coat.  The Text simply says that Jacob gives Joseph a “long-sleeved tunic”.

The kind of coat isn't the issue -— it's how many.  Every son is given a tunic from Dad.  But Joseph is given two.

And every brother hears Dad's message in perfect clarity: “Joseph is my b'hor.”

But no matter how hard Jacob tries to rewrite history, Joseph is not the b'hor.

Two stories.

Two children who want to be the b'hor, but are not.

It makes me think of the night that Jacob wrestled with God.  Refusing to let God (or the angel) go, God asks him, “What is your name?”  Which is a Jewish way of saying, “Who are you — really?”  And Jacob reveals that he is “the usurper”, Jacob.  That is who he is.  Always trying to obtain what isn't his.  But God will try to redefine Jacob.  Give him a new identity.  God will rename him Isra'el, hearkening him back to a time when he wrestled with God and emerged victorious.  You can almost hear God's invitation:

“Jacob, you aren't Isaac's firstborn.  But how about you come to be MY firstborn?”

And now, the Passover story comes full circle.  Where did the story awkwardly end in the middle of?  The plague of the b'hor.  What are the instructions surrounding Passover to remind you of?  The stories of b'hor.  In the first century, Rabbi Akiva made an interesting observation: as he translated the book of Exodus, he noted his disagreement with the way two verses were taught.  At first glance, the instructions of Exodus 12 appear to tell you to cook the goat “with the entrails still in it”...

Eww.

But Akiva said that isn't what the Hebrew meant at all.  In fact, the Hebrew phrase could be translated “with the insides inside”.  Akiva said that this meant you should cook the lamb with its head tucked between its hind legs.

In other words, in the fetal position.

But Akiva wasn't done.  He also said that we had a misunderstanding of the word “lentil” when the Israelites put the blood on the sides of the door and on the lentil.  Akiva said that the Hebrew word for lentil would mean the top AND bottom of the door.   Meaning that the blood went around the entire doorway.  What this would mean is that as Israel gathered that night to prepare for the great exodus, they were called to remember a story about firstborn children, to cook a lamb in the fetal position, and then to leave in haste through a bloody door.

And what image does one think of when they think of leaving in haste through a bloody door?

Birth.

I heard a rabbi, who doesn't believe in Jesus as Messiah, say, “Israel had to be born again.”  Interesting that Akiva, based in Capernaum, would have probably heard of that teaching from another Rabbi a generation before who had based Himself in Capernaum for three years…

Israel comes through the Red Sea having been born again as God's b'hor.  Their call will be to take the Father's values and pass them on to the rest of His children.  They will have a double portion of responsibility (They will have to carry Torah to the world.  We'll talk about that later.), but they will also have the double portion inheritance of being able to walk with God and see His work in the world firsthand.  They will be the keepers of the oracles of God.

That's why the firstborn donkey is in the little black box.
It's a little reminder of your call to be God's b'hor in the world.
To this day, Jews carry a great responsibility.  To show the world what God is like.

And for those of us who follow Jesus (though it seems like I shouldn't have to point this out), we too have been invited to be “born again”.  We too were called by Peter a “holy nation, a royal priesthood”.  We too are invited to be God's b'hor.  In Romans 11, Rabbi Paul told all the Gentiles that you have been mysteriously grafted into the Jewish tree.  It's not a new tree.  It's the same tree God planted with a man named Abram in the book of Genesis.  And yet, by grace, you are invited to take of the mantle of God's b'hor and spread Daddy's values to the rest of His children.

But it's always been one story.  God's always been up to one thing.  He's in the redemption business.
And, yet again, He's still looking for partners.